Safety Center
Last Updated: October 21, 2025
Effective Date: October 21, 2025
CRITICAL SAFETY DISCLAIMER: This Safety Center provides information about available safety
features and user responsibilities. However, the operator CANNOT and DOES NOT guarantee user safety. This
Service is provided "AS IS" with extremely limited moderation capabilities. Users assume ALL RESPONSIBILITY
for their own safety and must exercise extreme caution in all interactions.
ADULT-ONLY SERVICE (18+ STRICT REQUIREMENT): This Service is exclusively for individuals who
are at least 18 years of age or the age of majority in their jurisdiction, whichever is higher. Users under
18 are strictly prohibited under any circumstances. By accessing this Service, you represent, warrant, and
covenant that you meet this age requirement. The safety features described herein are designed for adult
users capable of protecting themselves.
1. Introduction and Scope
This Safety Center outlines the technical safety features available in Ping&Wink and provides guidance on
responsible use. However, users must understand the following fundamental limitations:
Service Operation Reality:
- This Service is operated by a single individual with NO dedicated safety team
- There is NO 24/7 monitoring of user activity or content
- There is NO proactive moderation or content screening
- Safety features are primarily technical tools for user self-protection
- The operator CANNOT prevent harmful user behavior
- Users must protect themselves using available tools
2. Built-In Safety Features
The Service implements several technical features designed to enhance privacy and provide user control:
| Safety Feature |
Description |
Limitations |
| Complete Anonymity |
No names, email addresses, phone numbers, or photographs required or collected |
Users can still be identified through behavioral patterns or information they voluntarily share |
| Automatic Expiration |
Vibes expire after 24 hours; chat messages deleted after 9 minutes maximum |
Other users can screenshot content before expiration; expired content may persist in backups temporarily
(up to 90 days) |
| Location Randomization |
Optional "soft location" mode adds 80-120 meter randomization to coordinates |
Location privacy is a technical enhancement, not a security guarantee; determined users may infer actual
location through patterns |
| Instant Ban Function |
One-tap user blocking that restricts access for minimum 7 minutes |
Bans are temporary; banned users can return after expiration; determined users can create new accounts
|
| Report System |
In-app reporting of Terms of Service violations |
NO guarantee of review or action; reports may never be reviewed; no notification of outcomes |
| Content Filter |
Automated detection of personal information and inappropriate content in messages |
Filters can be circumvented through creative spelling, coded language, or abbreviations |
Feature Effectiveness Disclaimer: While these features provide technical safeguards, they
are NOT foolproof. Determined malicious users can circumvent protections. Users must not rely exclusively on
technical features for their safety and must exercise constant vigilance and good judgment.
3. User Responsibility and Self-Protection
PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITY: Users bear sole and exclusive responsibility for their own safety
while using the Service. The operator provides tools, but users must actively protect themselves.
3.1 Essential Safety Practices
Users MUST adhere to the following safety practices to protect themselves:
Information Protection:
- NEVER share: Real names, addresses, phone numbers, email addresses, social media profiles,
workplace information, school names, financial information, or any other personally identifying information
- NEVER share: Photographs, videos, voice recordings, or other media that could identify you
- NEVER share: Information about your daily routines, regular locations, or predictable
patterns
- Assume: Everything you type can be screenshotted and shared outside the Service
Interaction Boundaries:
- NEVER agree to meet other users in person under any circumstances
- NEVER move conversations to other platforms, apps, or communication channels
- NEVER accept requests for photographs, videos, or voice calls
- IMMEDIATELY block users who request personal information or suggest in-person meetings
- TRUST your instincts - if something feels wrong, it probably is
Active Self-Moderation:
- Use the ban button liberally - it is your primary defense mechanism
- Do not wait for the operator to protect you - protect yourself immediately
- Block first, ask questions later - your comfort and safety are paramount
- Do not tolerate inappropriate behavior hoping for improvement
- Exit conversations at any time for any reason
3.2 What the Operator CANNOT Do
Users must understand that the operator has NO ability to:
- Monitor conversations in real-time
- Prevent users from sharing personal information
- Verify user identities, ages, or intentions
- Screen users before they access the Service
- Guarantee that banned users will not return
- Intervene in active harassment or dangerous situations
- Retrieve or delete content that has been screenshotted
- Prevent users from meeting in person if they choose to do so
4. Recognizing and Responding to Red Flags
4.1 Suspicious Behavior Indicators
Immediately ban and report users who exhibit the following behaviors:
Critical Warning Signs:
- Requests for personal information (name, location, contact details)
- Suggestions to meet in person
- Requests to move conversation to other platforms
- Requests for photographs, videos, or other media
- Sexually explicit messages or solicitation
- Offers of money, gifts, favors, or special treatment
- Persistent unwanted contact despite your disinterest
- Threats, intimidation, or aggressive behavior
- Attempts to isolate you from friends or family
- Inconsistent stories or obvious lies about identity
- Pressure to make quick decisions or keep secrets
- Anyone claiming to be under 18 years old
4.2 Response Protocol
When encountering suspicious behavior:
- Immediately ban the user (do not engage further)
- Report the violation using in-app reporting (no guarantee of review)
- Exit the conversation without explanation
- Do not retaliate or attempt to "expose" the user
- Document evidence (screenshots) if considering legal action
- Contact law enforcement if behavior constitutes a crime
5. Privacy Protection
5.1 Location Privacy
While the Service implements location randomization, users must understand:
- Approximate location (city/neighborhood level) is visible to other users
- Soft location mode (80-120 meter randomization) is an enhancement, not absolute protection
- Repeated check-ins from the same location may reveal patterns
- Users in low-population areas may be more easily identified
- Other users may infer location through conversation context
Location Safety Recommendations:
- Enable soft location mode for additional privacy
- Vary your check-in locations
- Never mention specific landmarks, businesses, or addresses in conversation
- Be aware that mentioning your city or neighborhood reduces your anonymity
Temporal Privacy Protection: Location data associated with your vibe is automatically deleted
after 24 hours. This 24-hour window balances service functionality (allowing users in different time zones to
connect) with privacy protection (limiting the temporal window of location exposure).
5.2 Data Protection Overview
For comprehensive information about data collection, use, and protection, please review our complete Privacy
Policy at https://pingandwink.com/privacy.html.
Key Privacy Points:
- Minimal data collection: device identifiers, approximate location, birth year
- Automatic data deletion: vibes after 24 hours, messages after 9 minutes
- No permanent user profiles or interaction history
- No sale or sharing of personal data with third parties
- GDPR-compliant data practices with user rights to access and deletion
Data Security Disclaimer: While we implement commercially reasonable security measures, no
method of electronic transmission or storage is 100% secure. We cannot guarantee absolute security of your
information. Data breaches may occur despite security measures. Users assume all risk associated with data
transmission and storage.
6. Emergency Situations and Crisis Resources
CRITICAL EMERGENCY DISCLAIMER: The operator of this Service CANNOT provide assistance in
emergency situations. DO NOT contact the operator for urgent help. DO NOT rely on the operator to intervene
in dangerous situations. Contact appropriate emergency services immediately.
6.1 Immediate Danger
If you are in immediate physical danger:
- Call emergency services immediately: 112 (Europe), 911 (US), 999 (UK), 000 (Australia)
- Remove yourself from the dangerous situation if possible
- Seek help from people nearby
- Do NOT wait for operator response
- Do NOT rely on in-app reporting for emergencies
6.2 Criminal Activity Reporting
If you witness or are victim of criminal activity through the Service:
- Report to local law enforcement as your primary action
- Document evidence: screenshots, user identifiers, timestamps
- File a criminal complaint with appropriate authorities
- Contact your country's cybercrime reporting center
- You may also report to operator at hello@pingandwink.com, but do not expect timely response
Law Enforcement Cooperation: The operator cooperates with law enforcement when presented with
valid legal process. We may disclose user information in response to lawful requests without user notification.
6.3 Mental Health and Crisis Support
If you or someone you're interacting with expresses suicidal ideation or mental health crisis:
International Crisis Resources:
Regional Crisis Services:
- United States: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 or 1-800-273-8255
- United States: Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
- United Kingdom: Samaritans: 116 123
- Australia: Lifeline: 13 11 14
- Canada: Crisis Services Canada: 1-833-456-4566
- European Union: Contact local mental health services (vary by country)
Operator Limitations: The operator is NOT equipped to provide mental health support, crisis
intervention, or suicide prevention services. Do NOT rely on the operator for mental health emergencies. Contact
qualified crisis professionals immediately.
7. Reporting Violations
7.1 In-App Reporting System
The Service provides an in-app reporting mechanism for Terms of Service violations. However, users must
understand severe limitations:
Reporting System Limitations:
- NO guarantee of human review - reports may never be reviewed
- NO guarantee of action - reviewed reports may not result in enforcement
- NO guarantee of response time - review may take days, weeks, or never occur
- NO notification of outcomes - reporters are not informed of actions taken
- NO appeals process - reported users have no recourse
- Reports are queued in an automated system with limited manual review capacity
7.2 What to Report
While recognizing reporting limitations, users should report:
- Threats of violence or physical harm
- Sexual harassment or explicit content
- Hate speech or discriminatory content
- Attempts to arrange in-person meetings with potential minors
- Sharing of personal information without consent
- Spam, commercial solicitation, or fraud
- Impersonation or identity fraud
7.3 Direct Contact for Serious Issues
For serious safety concerns that require human attention:
- Email: hello@pingandwink.com
- Subject Line: "URGENT SAFETY ISSUE"
- Include: Device identifier, user identifier of violator, description of violation,
screenshots if available
Response Expectations: Urgent safety reports may receive priority review, but response is not
guaranteed. Typical response time is 48-72 hours if responded to at all. For immediate threats, contact law
enforcement, not the operator.
8. Account Security
8.1 Device Security Responsibility
Users are solely responsible for securing their devices:
- Enable device passcode/biometric authentication
- Do not share device access with untrusted individuals
- Be aware that anyone with physical device access can use your account
- Log out of the Service when using shared or public devices (note: Service does not have traditional logout;
uninstall the app)
- Keep device operating system and apps updated with security patches
8.2 Network Security
Protect your connection:
- Avoid using the Service on public or unsecured Wi-Fi networks when possible
- Use VPN services for additional privacy if desired (user responsibility)
- Be aware that network administrators may be able to monitor traffic
- Understand that ISPs and mobile carriers can log connection metadata
9. Community Safety Standards
For comprehensive behavioral expectations, please review our complete Community Guidelines at https://pingandwink.com/guidelines.html.
Core Principles:
- Treat other users with basic respect and courtesy
- Maintain conversations appropriate for an adult audience
- Respect boundaries when others express discomfort
- Use blocking and reporting features to curate your experience
- Accept that temporary bans are a normal consequence of user feedback
Zero Tolerance Violations:
- Illegal activity of any kind
- Threats, violence, or harassment
- Sexual harassment or explicit content
- Hate speech or discrimination
- Attempts to contact individuals who may be minors
- Privacy violations or doxxing
10. Enforcement Limitations
ENFORCEMENT REALITY: Users must understand that enforcement of Community Guidelines and
Terms of Service is severely limited due to operational constraints of a solo-operated service.
What Users Should NOT Expect:
- Proactive monitoring of conversations or user behavior
- Immediate response to reports or safety concerns
- Guaranteed action on reported violations
- Prevention of repeat violations by the same users
- Permanent removal of problematic users (bans are temporary or may be circumvented)
- Operator intervention in ongoing problematic interactions
Primary Enforcement Mechanism: The user-initiated ban function is the primary and most effective
enforcement tool. Users must protect themselves through active use of blocking features rather than relying on
operator intervention.
11. Contact and Support
Support Contact Information:
- General Safety Inquiries: hello@pingandwink.com
- Urgent Safety Issues: hello@pingandwink.com (subject line: "URGENT SAFETY ISSUE")
- Alternative Contact: pingandwink@gmail.com
- Website: https://pingandwink.com
Response Time Expectations:
- Non-urgent inquiries: 48-72 hours if responded to at all
- Urgent safety issues: Priority review attempted, but not guaranteed
- Emergency situations: DO NOT contact operator - contact emergency services
- Responses may be delayed or may not occur during periods of high volume or operational constraints
12. Legal Framework
User safety and conduct are governed by multiple legal documents that together form a comprehensive legal
framework:
Users must review and comply with all documents. In case of conflict between documents, the Terms of Service
control.
13. Disclaimers and Liability Limitations
COMPREHENSIVE SAFETY DISCLAIMER: TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW:
- The operator provides NO WARRANTY regarding user safety
- The operator CANNOT prevent harmful user behavior
- The operator CANNOT guarantee effectiveness of safety features
- The operator assumes NO LIABILITY for user interactions, content, or conduct
- Users assume ALL RISK associated with Service use
- The operator's liability is LIMITED as specified in the Terms of Service
Service Provision Model: This Safety Center describes aspirational safety practices and
available tools. However, users acknowledge that:
- This is an independently operated service with limited resources
- There is no professional safety team or moderation staff
- Safety features are technical tools, not guarantees
- The operator cannot and does not warrant user safety
- Users who require enterprise-grade safety measures should not use this Service
14. Modifications to Safety Center
The operator reserves the right to modify this Safety Center at any time without notice. Modifications are
effective immediately upon posting at this URL. Users are responsible for periodically reviewing this document.
The operator has no obligation to provide individual notice of changes to safety features, policies, or
practices.
15. Final Acknowledgments
BY USING THIS SERVICE, YOU ACKNOWLEDGE AND AGREE THAT:
- You have read and understood this Safety Center in its entirety
- You understand that the operator cannot guarantee your safety
- You accept sole responsibility for your own safety and security
- You will actively use safety tools to protect yourself
- You will not rely on the operator for protection, intervention, or assistance in dangerous situations
- You understand that safety features are technical tools with limitations
- You accept all risks associated with anonymous online interactions
- You have read and agree to the Terms of Service, which include comprehensive liability limitations and
disclaimers
Honesty Statement: This Service is operated by a single individual as an independent
project. There is no safety team, no 24/7 monitoring, no guaranteed moderation, and no guarantee that
reports will be reviewed or acted upon. The safety features described are technical tools that users must
actively employ to protect themselves. If you require a heavily monitored, professionally moderated service
with guaranteed safety oversight, this is not the appropriate service for you. Users must be self-sufficient
adults capable of protecting themselves using the provided tools.